Loneliness Has an Antidote and You’ll Never Guess What It Is

Counselling Lecture in Dubai- Loneliness Has an Antidote and You’ll Never Guess What It Is

As a qualified Counsellor, I have counselled hundreds of clients to understand and help them lead better lives. When time permits, I love to travel and teach others to become Counsellors.

Here is what someone had to say……

I’m somebody who’s struggled with feelings of loneliness my whole life. It’s a big part of why I decided to become a relationship coach. I wanted to understand why some of my relationships felt more substantial than others. I wanted to understand why sometimes I relished being alone, yet other times being alone evoked feelings of profound sadness.

The question I wanted to answer was this: What makes some relationships feel better than others? It was a mystery I was determined to solve.

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MANDATORY MODULES

  • Introduction to Psychology and Counselling
    • Imago Dei- the Psychophysiological framework of human development
    • Biblical perspectives of Counselling
    • Psychology and Secular models of Counselling
  • Ethical framework in Counseling
  • Mental health and Psychopathology- DSM IV and ICD 10
  • Advanced Counselling skills
  • Neuropsychological fundamentals for Counsellors
  • Church Leadership and Industrial Psychology

SPECIALISED MODULES

  • Crisis and Grief Counselling
  • Pre-Marital and Marital Counselling
  • Ministering to the depressed $ sick person
  • Nutrition and Clinical Psychology
  • Forensic Psychology & Criminology ( Prison Counselling)
  • Spiritual oppression and prayer ministry

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Small Saturn moon has most of conditions needed to sustain life, Nasa says

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Small Saturn moon has most of conditions needed to sustain life, Nasa says

A tiny moon of Saturn has most of the conditions necessary for life, Nasa announced on Thursday, unveiling a discovery from an underground ocean that makes the world a leading candidate for organisms as humans know them.

Scientists stressed that the discovery on a moon named Enceladus is not evidence that life has in fact developed on another world, but they have managed to establish the existence of the water, chemistry and energy sources that are necessary for it.

“We now know that Enceladus has almost all of the ingredients that you need to support life as we know it on Earth,” said Linda Spilker, a project scientist who said the finding essentially confirmed vents on the moon’s seafloor…

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Employee Burnout Is a Problem with the Company, Not the Person

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Employee Burnout Is a Problem with the Company, Not the Person

Employee burnout is a common phenomenon, but it is one that companies tend to treat as a talent management or personal issue rather than a broader organizational challenge. That’s a mistake.The psychological and physical problems of burned-out employees, which cost an estimated $125 billion to $190 billion a year in healthcare spending in the U.S., are just the most obvious impacts. The true cost to business can be far greater, thanks to low productivity across organizations, high turnover, and the loss of the most capable talent. Executives need to own up to their role in creating the workplace stress that leads to burnout—heavy workloads, job insecurity, and frustrating work routines that include too many meetings and far too little time for creative work. Once executives confront the problem at an organizational level, they can use organizational measures to address it.

In our book Time, Talent and Energy, we note that when employees aren’t as productive as they could be, it’s usually the organization, not its employees, that is to blame. The same is true for employee burnout. When we looked inside companies with high burnout rates, we saw three common culprits: excessive collaboration, weak time management disciplines, and a tendency to overload the most capable with too much work. These forces not only rob employees of time to concentrate on completing complex tasks or for idea generation, they also crunch the downtime that is necessary for restoration. Here’s how leaders can address them.

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Collaboration Overload Is a Symptom of a Deeper Organizational Problem

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Collaboration Overload Is a Symptom of a Deeper Organizational Problem

Many leaders are now aware of the dangers of collaboration overload and collaboration-tool overload in the workplace. The evidence continues to mount that, for many organizations, the costs associated with meetings, emails, IMs and other forms of workforce collaboration now exceed the benefits.

But what can get lost in the eye-popping statistics around excess email and meetings is this: Collaboration overload is almost always a symptom of some deeper organizational pathology and rarely an ailment that can be treated effectively on its own. Attempts to liberate unproductive time by employing new tools (for example, Microsoft Teams, Slack, Box) or imposing new guidelines and meeting disciplines will prove fruitless unless steps are taken to deal with the underlying organizational illness. Companies that have successfully combatted the excesses of overload have done so by focusing on the root causes of unproductive collaboration—and not merely the symptoms—in devising the cure.

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Essentials of Buddhism

Essentials of Buddhism Norton Bridge Campus 2015

I love studying other religions and look deep into their inner worlds. Much work and research I have done concern Buddhism and major religions. When time permits I travel and teach others how to see and understand other perspectives.

The purpose of this course is to introduce students to Buddhist doctrines, practices and institutions. An important focus of the class will be on the spread and development of Buddhism across Asia and beyond, with an eye toward examining how foundational Buddhist ideas and practices have taken shape in specific places and in particular historical contexts. This course will selectively survey the foundational teachings, history and diversity of Buddhism, from the lifetime of the Buddha in fifth century BCE India to contemporary Buddhist communities in Southeast Asia, East Asia, and North America. Along the way, we will consider some important questions raised and addressed in the critical study of religion.

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Sweden Becomes First Western Nation to Reject Low-fat Diet Dogma in Favor of Low-carb High-fat Nutrition

Sweden has become the first Western nation to develop national dietary guidelines that reject the popular low-fat diet dogma in favor of  low-carb high-fat nutrition advice.

The switch in dietary advice followed the publication of a two-year study by the independent Swedish Council on Health Technology Assessment. The committee reviewed 16,000 studies published through May 31, 2013.

Swedish doctor, Andreas Eenfeldt, who runs the most popular health blog in Scandinavia (DietDoctor.com) published some of the highlights of this study in English:

Health markers will improve on a low-carbohydrate diet:

…a greater increase in HDL cholesterol (“the good cholesterol”) without having any adverse affects on LDL cholesterol (“the bad cholesterol”). This applies to both the moderate low-carbohydrate intake of less than 40 percent of the total energy intake, as well as to the stricter low-carbohydrate diet, where carbohydrate intake is less than 20 percent of the total energy intake. In addition, the stricter low-carbohydrate diet will lead to improved glucose levels for individuals with obesity and diabetes, and to marginally decreased levels of triglycerides.” (Source.)

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Why Experts Now Think You Should Eat More Fat

For more than half a century, the conventional wisdom among nutritionists and public health officials was that fat is dietary enemy number one – the leading cause of obesity and heart disease.

It appears the wisdom was off. And not just off. Almost entirely backward.

According to a new study from the National Institutes of Health, a diet that reduces carbohydrates in favor of fat – including the saturated fat in meat and butter – improves nearly every health measurement, from reducing our waistlines to keeping our arteries clear, more than the low-fat diets that have been recommended for generations. “The medical establishment got it wrong,” says cardiologist Dennis Goodman, director of Integrative Medicine at New York Medical Associates. “The belief system didn’t pan out.”

 

 

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How the Most Emotionally Intelligent CEOs Handle Their Power

Most of the CEOs I’ve met and worked with had years to prepare for their jobs. As they entered middle management, most of them learned that being a good leader is more important than being a good do-er. Many have stories to tell about stumbling along the way, about micromanaging people, about destroying a team’s morale with unreasonable demands, about losing a great team member because enough time and attention weren’t given to the relationship.

Most survived these types of difficult experiences and, more important, learned from them. They learned to let go of control and instead support people in doing their jobs. They learned to watch their teams for signs of burnout and rebellion. They learned to help people work smarter, not harder. They learned to read people well. They got very good at recognizing who needs appreciation, who needs support, who’s motivated by achievement, and who needs very collegial relationships — even with the boss. They learned tricks for building stronger teams, for dealing with conflict, and for negotiating.

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10 Telling Signs You’re an Emotionally Intelligent Person

Emotionally intelligent people are the advice-givers among their group of friends. Do you have a friend who seems to know what you’re feeling before you’ve verbalized it? This friend is emotionally intelligent. There are many of those people in the world. They are the healers, the untrained therapists among friends.

“Oh, ask Stacy. She always knows what to do.” Stacy is emotionally intelligent. That’s why she knows what your boyfriend is thinking having never had more than a five-minute conversation with the dude.

 

 

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Medicina World Congress and Knighthood

Medicina World Congress and Knighthood -BMICH held annually

As its international President, I interact with hundreds of students and faculty members worldwide to help promote integrative medicines.

Medicina which was formed by World Health Org 57 years ago has an alumni network of over 150,000 and is making steady progress in many countries with greater emphasis on quality of education and clinical training. We also received full accreditation from the Confederation of International Accreditation Commission, International Commission of Diplomatic Relations, Human Rights and Peace in consultative status with UN. We are also registered with the United Nations and incorporated in USA. Based on the final Charter of January 2000.

Our Knighthood order Knights St John of Malta coming from 1090 is now ever more active to mobilize the members to support Medicina Alternativa in its efforts.

Distinguished Alumni of Medicina

Dr.Samanta- Founder of KITT University India

Dr.Nick Begich

Dr.Raja Choudhary- Professor, Graduate of Harvard & Yale

Dr.Subha Ganguly- Scientist

B K S Iyenger- Yoga guru of International fame

Dr. Shirish Patil- Dean Patil University School of Medicine

Dr. E K Schandl- American Metabolic Laboratries

Dr.Krishna Kumar- Hindu University of America, Florida, USA

Dr. Cynthia Reynolds- Wellness Center

Prof. (Dr.) Mrs. Chandra Krishnamurthy Vice Chancellor Pondicherry University, India

Dr.Susan Joyce Proctor, USA

Dr.Christiaan Barnard – First Transplant Surgeon in the world

Late Dr.Mrs.Soma Edirisinghe – Hon Chairperson at EAP Edirisinghe Organization.Lions Club District Governor 2003 -2004

Joan E. Gadsby – Recognized internationally as an authority, consultant, lecturer and public speaker on the responsible and informed use of benzodiazepines (tranquillizers and sleeping pills) and anti-depressants.

Dr.Mohd Abbas – Specialist Alternative Medicines Member Naturopathic Medical Association of California

Sri Ravi Shankar- Founder of the Art of Living

K T Rabiullah Gulf based Industrialist

Late Prime Minster Benazir Bhutto

Late Prime Minster Benazir Bhutto

Dr. Ashish Kulkarni- Reliance CEO

Dr. T A Varkey- MD Medilab

Prof.Diana Mossop- Berkeley Clinic, USA

Dr.Natalia M Schatte- S.H E Foundation

Dr.Sandeep Bakshi Chancellor Jaipur National University, India

Dr.Luisah Teish Institute of Noetic Sciences, USA

Dr.Sheela Devi Head of Dept of Physiology University of Madras, India

Dr.Sheela Devi Head of Dept of Physiology University of Madras, India

Dr.Sunderdas Annamalay-Physician, Professor

Boris Yeltsin – President of Russia 1991-1999

Dr.Dorothy Marshall – President for the Reflexology Association of Canada (RAC)

Dr.Diane Berke – Faculty Wisdom College and Author of two books on the spiritual path, Love Always Answers and The Gentle Smile, and four spiritual reference manuals.

Dr. Douglas James Cottrell – Researcher, Intuitive healer, Author

Dr.Abdus Salam – He received his DSc from OIUCM in 1987

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